John said to him “Teacher, we saw someone casting out demons in your name, and we tried to stop him, because he was not following us.” But Jesus said, “Do not stop him; for no one who does a deed of power in my name will be able soon afterward to speak evil of me. Whoever is not against us is for us. For truly I tell you, whoever gives you a cup of water to drink because you bear the name of Christ will by no means lose the reward. [Mark 9.38-41]
How easily we find reasons to take sides.
We decide who belongs; more often, we decide who does not. We know the journey, from the painful process (for some) of teams being chosen in the playground in primary school, to the social, or political, or religious gauntlet in which we live and are allocated.
I referred last week to Stan Grant’s comment[1] about identity being “a cage in search of a bird” and that has some weight here. We identify a person by their gender, or skin colour, or age, or sexuality and decide their inherent merit, or their capacity to belong to “our” group.
This behaviour is accelerating in our community, as we find ourselves more likely to associate primarily with those who think and vote like us and, more pronounced, offering condemnation to those who do not. We discount their views and express contempt for them as whole; if you vote for that party/person/policy then you have nothing to offer.
Before we reflexively become too defensive, wait a moment and reflect.
There are echoes for us in this week’s Gospel reading, with the disciples behaving as we often might, by staking our ground and our privilege, and warning others away.
It’s simple, is it not? And it saves time.
And it infests many faith traditions within the whole Church. The strident defence of being evangelical or progressive, of being “bible-based”, builds into finger-pointing and, tragically, fence-building.
Our identity as followers of Jesus will be formed and discovered by the cups of water we offer to the thirsty, not the quality of fence strainer or barbed wire we use. At this point in the Gospel, Jesus is stepping into the journey towards the cross, for the sake of those who accept him, and those who do not.
What might that look like, in our Congregation, in our relationships, in our community?
[1] Frank Archibald Memorial Lecture, 19th September 2024